Happy Mother's Day! Today is the day when phone lines are jammed as people call their mother. It's a day when we may feel a keen sense of loss as our own mother may have died in the past year. Or, we may not look forward to this day as it can be a reminder that for whatever reason, we never were able to bear children. Our relationship with our children could be one that's estranged, and we haven't spoken to them in years. Wrapped up in this day is both happiness and sadness.
While my biological mother is still living, on this day I think of all the women who have influenced me in my life: Teachers, neighbors, and so many, many more. Of course, I cherish my mother, and am delighted I can still talk with her. One woman in particular comes to mind. At one church we served, Pat called herself my "second mother."; And she would tell my parents just that! Pat was always ready to help. If we needed a ride to the airport, she would take us. And bring us home, too. At her funeral, I told this story. She was a lovely woman who wasn't bashful about correcting if she felt I needed it, just like my real mom.
In ancient times, especially among the Hebrews (later the Jews), women played a significant role in the lives of the children. Whether or not one was biologically related, their influence was ever-present. It was like having multiple mothers, each of whom loved you. It wasn't important if one had their own children, or even if one was single. That influence and impact extended beyond one's immediate family. I grew up in neighborhoods like that. Our parents never worried as we were always within a shout or a phone call. And we knew not to try and "get away" within anything. Wherever we were, that mom acted - just as our own mother would - as our moral compass.
In some instances, especially in single-parent homes where the children are being raised by the dad, the man becomes both mother and father, fulfilling both roles. It can't be an easy task, and I have great admiration for any single parent be they male or female. Some do it well, while some do it not so well. Again, it can't be easy. But where they succeed, the impact can be lasting, molding the child into the person God created them to be.
So today, I wish all women a happy Mother's Day. Whether or not you have children, or whether or not you are married, is immaterial. You have played a significant role in the lives of young people. You have been a part of their formation and guidance. But most of all, you have shared your love with them. May God bless you this day and every day! See you on the journey.
Grace and peace,
Mike
May 10, 2015